Are you living a creme brulee lifestyle?
I love creme brulee. I love the divine taste and five star experience and my dear friend James knows my taste! Well, James and I have a monthly tradition. We get on the phone and discuss life, business and what we can do to improve our lives. We share resources to grow our business. We laugh a lot and talk about our lifestyle, dreams and families. However, the last phone call was quite different. James felt lost. He wanted a new direction in his life and business. He was getting frustrated! As we talked we both saw his values were not aligned with the work he was involved in. It was not making him happy, complete and he was loosing a desire to continue doing the work he has put so much energy into. He was seeking new solutions. But they had to be simple!
I said , “James why are you being an apple pie when you want to be a creme brulee?“ He started laughing and said to me, ” I love a good piece of flourless chocolate cake. I get your point and i never thought of it this way!!” He simply gave up on his dreams, his desires and passions. He wanted finer things in life and felt he needed to do things to please masses. He did everything to bring resources and solutions but they could not provide the income he wanted to have to support his dream lifestyle. He appreciated fine things in life and he was afraid to accept them. His values were WEALTH, BEAUTY, ART, RELATIONSHIPS, FINE THINGS ( great food, wine and so on..) and EDUCATION. The solution- he had to accept his desires and dreams and FINALLY claim them!
It does not matter if you want to be a creme brulee, a cake or heavenly apple pie. You must change! James made a decision not to lie to himself about who he was and what he wanted in life was perfectly wonderful!~ He had to get out of circles he was in and start surrounding himself with people who would help him to be at that level. His professional and business experience was outstanding, but he was trying to be just another internet marketer, just another trainer of low cost marketing methods thinking it would attract BIG THINKERS. Some of his clients were not willing to pay BIG bucks, and he was giving the education and resources to grow their business! He believed nothing was working and needed an immediate intervention! He needed a breakthrough…
We came up with a solution to get him out of the work he was doing . It was not bringing satisfaction any longer. It was making him quite angry. He had to let go of projects he was not passionate about! He had to stop to fear what he loved the most- his appreciation for fine things and teaching people who think BIG. He had to let go of idea that serving his knowledge to people who did not appreciate his vision was a great idea!
He saw that he had gifts that were not fully utilized, and he was dying inside to share them with the right people. He had to think differently about his passions, his values and a wonderful life he wanted for his family! He saw that self love was a missing ingredient in his work!
The best advice he received in our chat was to do what he always wanted to do. He had to stop living on the planet he did not belong to and move to the planet (a new platform) where he was destined to be and follow his divine blueprint. He had to take a space ship ( his new thoughts and powerful intention) and make a leap of faith. Total surrender and trust!
So…Are you living a creme brulee lifestyle?
Change your thoughts, expect only the best and feel it is happening to you! Then, take actions to match your desires and your thinking. You can start today…Why not?